What to do if a long married life has exhausted the relationship. Maybe it's time to leave, but it's not always possible. In some families, a loan or mortgage is paid for 15 years, someone cannot leave their children. Theoretically, secret meetings can help, which again allow you to feel the former passion. Relations on the side sometimes, on the contrary, very strongly fasten family ties.
But the problem is where to find such a person who could resurrect the fire in the soul? Searching among acquaintances is not the best option, sooner or later everything will become clear. So, where is the best place to go?
Before you seriously think about how to find a mistress for a married man or a lover for a married woman and make secret connections, then honestly ask yourself if you are ready to risk your family?
It is rather difficult to answer this question, especially for married ladies. Most often, they love their spouse, as he is a wonderful person. At this moment, she suffers from the lack of proper attention from him. Or if, after a few years of married life, annoying habits surfaced. In a mistress or lover there may be those features that a spouse or spouse lacks.
Communication on the side is not a way out of the current situation with the second half. Psychologists warn that before taking such a step, it is necessary to try to change the current relationship.
Often in reality, these attempts to change something or conversations lead to nothing. You can try to explain to your spouse that there are many entertainments in the world, except for a TV or a computer. You can try to explain to your spouse that she is no longer attracted as a woman. But often this comes up only at best with misunderstanding, at worst with anger and scandals.
It is easier to transfer the negative character traits of a husband or wife if you receive positive emotions on the side. After all, a happy person will turn a blind eye to many negative and annoying things in everyday life.
Finding someone for sex in real life is not easy. It is not advisable to look at parties with friends, at work, nightclubs. This can turn into a number of problems: from simple imposition to health problems, and worse, that everyone can find out about it. In this regard, dating sites and social networks offer a wide range of people who want to get acquainted with a ringed person.
Man: looking for a lover
Most married people, having got a passion for themselves, begin to appreciate the family and feel guilty before their wife. As a result, returning home, he tries to compensate somehow for his misdeed. He pays attention to children and wife. Wives notice this behavior and understand that something is happening. Some time ago, the husband could not be forced to take out the garbage, but here he does it himself, gifts for no reason.
At this point, of course, the wives are aware of the presence of a third person. But they do not always prefer to break an established life in haste, because you can turn everything in your direction, closing your eyes to the adventures of the faithful. When they were going to marry a handsome or wealthy guy, they unconsciously understood that there would always be persons around him who wanted to get someone else's.
In very rare cases, husbands leave the family for the sake of a passion, mostly they crave only entertainment.
Having received a positive charge from the passion, the spouse seeks to return to his wife, and if the spouse agrees to the rules of the game, then she only wins.
What are the best sites to choose?
For wealthy representatives of the stronger sex, the most suitable way is to register on a specialized anonymous dating site, where girls are ready to become secret love. This is a great way to choose a passion for yourself based on sympathy and financial assistance, that is, to find yourself a kept woman. Usually, on such resources, girls understand why they go to the profile, and are ready to remain silent after the meetings. These will not necessarily be girls with reduced social responsibility, but also those who are looking for a sponsor for a long time. Here you can pick up a well-groomed and very beautiful passion for further private communication.
If you are financially limited or would like a clean, bright relationship, then common resources will help a married man find a mistress:
- Fotostrana.ru;
- mamba;
- Love.mail.ru and others.
In particular, you can use special mobile applications that will be very convenient to use. Here is some of them:
- Tinder;
- badoo;
- my love and others.
We have only listed the most popular options, and there are still a huge number of them. It will be very easy to register, and even easier to use.
The perfect lover
Representatives of the stronger sex who are looking for a mistress should understand that the ideal should be a woman who does not want to marry him. Therefore, when choosing a partner, you should pay attention to the profiles on the dating site, which indicate:
- looking for a sponsor;
- meet a single guy;
- one night relationship.
The ideal mistress would be a lady who is herself married.
She is unlikely to plan to divorce her husband and will try very hard to keep the intrigue a secret. In this way, acquaintances with married women will be the most suitable for love games, in contrast to the young and unmarried, who may try to fit into the family and destroy it.
Women: looking for a lover
It is much more difficult for women to find a lover on an anonymous site, similar to men's with the search for kept women. Why is this happening? The reason here is banal - most often they do not make such resources. What is the best thing to do in this case, because the social circle of most of the fair sex is small: home-work-home. If you try to have an affair at work, then everything will become clear pretty quickly.
If a married woman wants to meet a married man, then you can use Internet resources in the same way. In this regard, the fair sex is even more likely to find a lover there than men. According to statistics, there are more male profiles on sites of this kind than female profiles. Go ahead and you will be able to choose the right option for yourself.
A variety of resources will help in this matter, where you can meet a man for secret meetings:
- Fotostrana.ru;
- mamba;
- Love.mail.ru and others.
For your convenience, you can use, among other things, mobile applications, both of the resources already presented above, and others. For example:
- Tinder;
- badoo;
- my love and others.
Married men sitting on dating sites are a good option. You can flirt with them and have a virtual romance, as well as make an appointment in reality with a sequel. The positive side is also that it is safe and in fact there is no physical betrayal, if suddenly you decide to stop everything at once.
other methods
If the above option does not suit you, then use another effective way - dating on the street. There are a number of advantages: you can immediately see whether he is married or not, how he is dressed and behaves during a conversation. You can notice a large number of details in the process that you will not notice during communication on resources designed for online communication.
If you liked the chosen method, then to find out the phone number and name of the chosen one, you just need to attract attention. "Lost" your phone and ask the "victim" to call your number. So you can easily find out his number and leave yours.
Offer coffee to the savior as a thank you for the help. During a conversation, listen more than you talk.
Try to find out as much information about the chosen one as possible. Naturally, there will not be a connection between you right away, but the information received can be used in the future. Almost all male representatives like to talk about themselves.
A good option would be if you have a car, "accidentally" meet a potential lover at a gas station or car market. Ask a male representative of interest to help you. Representatives of the stronger sex love to help, especially when it comes to cars.
Never during a conversation should you be interested in the financial situation of the future boyfriend or complain about your financial problems. This is regularly done by the spouse.
What can you talk about?
- Take an interest in the children, even if he does not take part in their upbringing, but he will not miss the opportunity to brag about his offspring.
- The stronger sex likes to discuss their hobbies. If you have similar hobbies, then this will become a reference point of interconnection with each other. But even if you have no idea what it is, then enthusiastically ask around. The future boyfriend will be very pleased to talk about what he does in his free time. So, you will receive an additional plus on your account.
Never load him with your problems and do not climb into the soul. Always be nice and casual. First of all, try to be his friend, then there will be a huge chance that over time, friendships will develop into something more.
Afterword
Dating for married and married is an opportunity to return the former passion. Sometimes in the life of people who have already settled down, this is almost the only way to break out of the gray everyday life and be free or free again. Fortunately, in the modern world, you can easily find a person who pursues similar goals.
If you start to talk about morality and morality on him, then the betrayal of spouses is unacceptable and condemned by society. However, life dictates its own rules and there may be different circumstances when he or she decides to commit adultery. Most often this happens when people have been living together for a long time and feelings have cooled down. Many are kept from parting by children, someone by habit and unwillingness to change something in their usual life.
Women often start an affair on the side due to a lack of attention and love from their husbands. Men are more likely to want sexual diversity. Many, having reached a certain age, are looking for a younger girl in order to assert themselves in their own sexual attractiveness. Yes, there are many different reasons pushing people to adultery.
There are even special sites where they organize dating for secret meetings for married and married people. If this happened and you met a person with whom you want to continue a relationship, it will be useful to know where to meet your lover (mistress)? We'll talk about it today. And also we will tell the opinions of psychologists about some of the features and subtleties of such relationships. So, how and where is the best place to meet?
How to arrange a meeting?
For meetings, it is better to find not only a comfortable and convenient place. The main thing is that it be away from home, the place of work of both and be hidden from prying eyes. This is especially important if you live in a small town where you can easily meet people you know. Therefore, carefully prepare for the meeting - this will avoid unpleasant consequences in the future.
Be sure to arrange a date in advance, preferably by phone. Specify the date and time. Do not be late, do not make your partner wait and be nervous.
If you have to wait a little at the appointed place, be sure to come up with a plausible answer to the question - what are you doing here? This is necessary in case you suddenly meet friends or they just notice you by chance. If you're in a meeting and someone is talking to your partner, don't approach until the person has left.
It is better for a man to come on a date without flowers. Firstly, flowers are a clear sign of a love date, and secondly, it will be difficult for a married woman to explain the origin of the bouquet at home. Do not create additional difficulties for yourself and her.
You also need to come up with a plausible legend for your spouse about a late return home “from work” if the date is scheduled for the evening. If the plans fall on the day, you will have to take time off from work.
Do not tell any of your colleagues about the real reason for your early departure. Say that you urgently need to get a certificate from the house management, or you need to take the equipment for repair, enroll your child in a sports section, etc. It is best to earn a day off in advance and then use it when you need it.
Where is the best place to meet?
It is very important to choose the right place for a secret date. It must meet two important conditions: safety and comfort.
It is best to book a hotel room in advance, in that area of the city where no one knows you, and even better - outside the city. There are also enough hotels in large cities in the suburbs.
In the summer, for dating for meetings for married and married, small houses outside the city are ideal, which can be rented for a short vacation. If you can afford to leave home for the weekend, go with your passion to the sea, river or lake, taking with you a tent, provisions and everything you need.
Very often, lovers use the apartment of a friend or girlfriend when they are not at home. In this case, having received the keys, be sure to discuss the exact time that you will be in the apartment. Approaching the door, be sure to call. And, only if no one opens, use the keys. Be sure to bring a sheet and a towel with you. Be careful and do not leave traces of your stay. Everything should remain in its original form, as it was before your arrival.
What to expect from these relationships? The opinion of psychologists
The relationship of lovers is surrounded by a halo of mystery and romance, which exacerbates the flared feelings. However, when, for some reason, hiding is no longer necessary, they notice with disappointment that feelings begin to fade. Unfortunately, this happens frequently.
Experts also note that women are usually more likely to suffer from such relationships. The fact is that married men are more pragmatic and rarely truly fall in love with their girlfriend, so they rarely leave the family either.
Married women usually fall in love with their lover without memory, consider him their man and are terribly jealous of their lawful wife. Usually mistresses are at great risk of giving themselves away and losing their own family.
The result is a serious imbalance in relationships: a married woman is ready to give all of herself to her beloved man and does not give anything to her husband, moving away from him and her family is gradually being destroyed. A married man, using the additional energy that a woman in love gives him, spends this energy on his own family, strengthening his position at home. He feels young and full of energy. Secret dating for married women is losing in the long run, and dating for married men is a source of good emotions.
As psychologists say, only 1% of married and married love relationships end in a new marriage. According to statistics, men in most cases stay with their families and do not plan a new marriage with their mistress.
Remember that although the words love and lovers have the same root, in fact they are completely different concepts. Beloved and mistress are not the same thing. Therefore, the regular events that occur in love stories are very different from true love stories.
If a person begins to hide something and hide from someone, then he has good reasons for that. And when it comes to finding a lover or mistress, the situation becomes even more piquant. Therefore, a large number of people would like to do this as discreetly as possible.
It is understandable. Perhaps your beloved soulmate simply does not satisfy you in bed, but you don’t want to leave at all, because in everything else you are completely satisfied with everything. In such a situation, a secret dating site comes to the rescue.
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Thanks to all this, secret love meetings of married women or married men became possible without any subsequent obligations.
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Dating for married people
If you are married, then there are not so many places for dating. On the street, in cafes and restaurants, your wedding ring will give you away. On dating sites like Mamba or apps like Tinder, girls always say, "Do not disturb the married."
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